Positivity.

For all my life people have been telling me how negative I am about everything. It's fair to say that I have had my fair share of complaining, and it is easy to feel like I have the right to complain, I deserve to be mad about certain things. When life deals you so much negativity, the easiest option is to be angry about it and show everyone that you're angry and hurt. You want to let it be known how it made you feel so low, and how you wish that these bad things would stop happening to you. 

It is harder to ignore it, or to accept it when it happens continuously - when things feel like they're in order, and something comes along and messes it all up again, and when you get it right again, the same thing happens repeatedly. In this case, you get fed up, sick of putting up a fight and you break. Its perfectly OK to let your inner emotions pour out once in a while, but it still doesn't fix anything, does it? Complaining, moaning, screaming, shouting - doesn't get you anywhere.

That's why I have decided to try my absolute hardest to think positively from now on. I want to be able to have my thoughts and my outlook on life reflect the things that I get dealt. I am a big believer in karma, and so I believe that thinking positive things and doing positive things will bring me the happiness that I have wanted to feel for so long. Its no use sitting in my room alone in the dark listening to sad music and dwelling on the bad parts of my life, because again, it doesn't fix anything, it just makes me feel worse.

So when you feel a little bit sad, perhaps you've had a bad day and things just don't go right, remember that tomorrow is a new day, and if you think positively, the world will treat you right. Go out tomorrow, have a smile on your face, do things that make you happy, try hard to feel your inner happiness and things will start to look up before you know it. 

I know that everybody is different, I know we have all had our thunder and lightening, and I know that some people are in such a dark place it will feel impossible to go out tomorrow and smile, but if you fill your head with positive thoughts, the universe will work its magic.

xo